Have you wasted a lot of time wondering if you could ever make the guy notice you and ask you out even though he seems out of your league? The main thing is to stop wasting any more time and take a definite step towards him. At least you will have tried! Don’t let anyone – even you – tell you that you are not good enough for him! Here are some tips to help you along.
Don’t lose hope and have more confidence in yourself
Just because he seems out of your league does not mean that you don’t have a chance with him! No doubt you are intimidated and a little afraid because he seems to be too good for you. This does not mean that you are not worthy or good enough. Get working on your looks, personality and attitudes and build up your self confidence.
Gear up and make plans to be successful
The more you decide to take matters into your own hands, the better are your chances of attracting him. Gear up and make specific plans to look and be beautiful, elegant and successful in attracting him. No matter how much of time and money you would have to invest – do it! It will be worth it.
Get him to notice you and be impressed
Once you have managed to look gorgeous – all you have to do is impress him. Get invited to the same parties. Hang out at the clubs and other places he frequents. It is the only way to make him see you. Once he does, go out of your way to look stunning and interesting. He is bound to want to know you.
Make him immensely curious about you
The more he notices you, the more he is going to wonder who you are and why he hasn’t seen you or been introduced to you in the past! Take care to let him know just the bare minimum. This will make him wonder about you even more. He will get curious about you and try to find out details about this “mysterious woman”.
Don’t let your tongue hang out!
Just because he is curious about you does not mean that you immediately let the cat out of the bag and let him see how much you adore him! Don’t let him know that you like him. Ignore his presence and talk to the other guys. Let him get frustrated over the fact that you are not willing to fall into his arms like the other women!
Show him that you can be as good!
Even though you may not be in his league, let him see that you are as good as any of them – if not better! Be interesting, look exciting and be bold and daring to be yourself. The more enchanted he is by your personality, the less he will bother about you being from the other side of the tracks!
Be bold enough to approach him
Once you are sure of getting his attention and interest, make sure that you make an instant impression on his mind. One way to do this is to be bold and spontaneous. Making conversation with him without fear of looking like a fool will show him that you are a lady who is not afraid of rejection. He will definitely want to ask you out!